90 Day Fiancé: How Kalani Found Happiness After Leaving Asuelu (She Deserves All The Love)

After years of uncertainty in her relationship with Asuelu Pulaa, 90 Day Fiancé star Kalani Faagata found true happiness once she left her marriage. The couple met while Kalani was traveling to Samoa for vacation and got pregnant. Asuelu moved to the United States during 90 Day Fiancé season 6, where he acclimated to life in America as a new father. While they went on to have another child together, Kalani and Asuelu had an underlying sense of uncertainty surrounding them. They revealed the secrets of their marriage during 90 Day: The Last Resort season 1.

Before he moved to the U.S. with a K-1 visa, Asuelu cheated on Kalani while she was pregnant. They quietly navigated Asuelu’s continuous infidelity throughout their marriage away from the cameras. After putting on a brave face for the entirety of their relationship, Kalani had enough. During The Last Resort, she told her husband she wanted a divorce. It was heartbreaking to watch a notable 90 Day Fiancé franchise couple split while actively seeking therapy. Despite their split, Kalani and Asuelu are co-parenting successfully. What’s more, Kalani has moved on and found newfound love.

Kalani Stayed With Asuelu Despite His History Of Infidelity

Before The Last Resort, the status of Kalani and Asuelu’s relationship was unclear. Even when they were on 90 Day Fiancé season 6, their segments had awkward tension. They never addressed the problems in their marriage, but underneath it all, Kalani was mourning Asuelu’s infidelities. Looking back on their first season, everything makes sense. Kalani’s family never overly accepted her marriage to Asuelu. In hindsight, it’s quite obvious that there were unspoken problems that weren’t being mentioned on the show.

Kalani had to deal with the pressure of filming a reality TV show, raising her child, and integrating Asuelu into her day-to-day life during their first season on 90 Day Fiancé. She likely didn’t want to add more fuel to the fire by revealing to the audience that her husband-to-be was cheating on her. Kalani would have been judged for her decision to stay with Asuelu. After he cheated on her while she was pregnant with their first son, they welcomed another baby together. However, this didn’t stop Asuelu from being unfaithful to his wife.

While never confirmed, there were always rumors about Asuelu’s behavior. His activity on social media was an indicator that he was not loyal to his wife. Asuelu would go live on his social media accounts and flirt with women on the video chats. After their stint on the mainstay, Kalani and Asuelu watched the current seasons 90 Day Fiancé: Pillow Talk. However, all of a sudden, he was replaced with Kalani’s sister, Kolini. Their sisterly bond better suited Pillow Talk, though it was confusing why they would swap out Kalani’s husband, an established franchise personality, for her sister.

Kalani Worked On Her Marriage With Asuelu For Years, But Finally Hit Her Breaking Point After Her “Hall Pass”

There was an obvious shift in Kalani’s energy toward her husband on The Last Resort season 1. For the first time, she didn’t hide the truth to protect her husband from public criticism. The spin-off was highly dependent on the couple’s attending therapy, which meant they’d had to air their dirty laundry. Kalani revealed that Asuelu had been cheating on her throughout their relationship for the first time on The Last Resort. There was one instance of disloyalty that pushed the reality star to her breaking point after he cheated on her while visiting Samoa.

“Basically, since the beginning of Asuelu and I’s relationship, he’s cheated the whole time.”

In one of the most shocking moments in the 90 Day Fiancé franchise, Kalani revealed that she realized Asuelu cheated on her after he developed a yeast infection on his tongue. During a FaceTime call, she noticed her husband’s tongue was white. “That’s a yeast infection, you have thrush, and there’s only certain ways you can get it,” Kalani said, to which Asuelu admitted that he had kissed another woman and participated in other sexual relations with someone while he was on vacation. After his admission, he offered Kalani a “hall pass” to “make it even.”

After years of disrespect, Kalani took the “hall pass” with a new man, Dallas Nuez. She suffered in silence for years and took the first chance Asuelu gave her to experience someone new. After meeting Dallas, Kalani developed genuine feelings for him. During The Last Resort, she blocked him but ended up messaging him after seeing Asuelu delete text messages. Dallas flew to the resort, spent a night with Kalani, and decided to call off her marriage.

Kalani Found A Man Who Appreciated Her

Before meeting Asuelu, Kalani was a virgin who hadn’t been in a serious relationship. She felt betrayed when he cheated on her during her first pregnancy. She was uncertain how to move forward with him but decided to stay together for her child. After her husband developed a yeast infection from another cheating incident, Kalani knew it was time to move on. The “hall pass” gave her the clearance to experience something – or someone – new with Dallas. Kalani didn’t expect to develop genuine feelings for her “hall pass,” but he treated her with more love and respect than Asuelu had.

Kalani & Dallas Are Proof That Staying In The Wrong Relationship May Prohibit You From Meeting The Right Person

Nowadays, Kalani and Dallas have welcomed a baby girl. They’re proof that staying in the wrong relationship may be holding you back from meeting the right person. There were many reasons that Kalani felt pressure to stay in her marriage. She was pregnant and had already begun the K-1 visa process when he began cheating on her. On top of that, they became a fixture of the 90 Day Fiancé franchise.

Whether they were happy together or not, their relationship turned into a job. Appearing on reality shows can pay the bills, but it doesn’t guarantee a healthy relationship.

The reality star and mother of three deserves all the happiness she’s found in her new relationship. It’s sad that Kalani and Asuelu’s marriage ended in divorce, but they weren’t meant to be together. Dallas opts to stay out of the spotlight she’s garnered from reality TV, which is probably for the best.

90 Day Fiancé’s Kalani deserves to feel loved and appreciated in her new relationship since her split from Asuelu. She was not treated adequately throughout her first marriage. Kalani kept her husband’s infidelity hidden until she knew their relationship was over. Since her split, she’s shed the weight of her toxic marriage and has been thriving and living her new life.