90 Day Fiancé: Before the 90 Days star Usman Umar AKA Sojaboy seems to have recently become a new dad. Usman is a 35-year-old musician from Nigeria who achieved worldwide fame after his 90 Day Fiancé: Before the 90 Days season 4 debut. Usman has appeared in the franchise with two different women since his debut, but both relationships were toxic and eventually, unsuccessful. Usman was accused of dating older American women who could fall for his charms and bring him to the U.S.
Usman’s last on-screen relationship with Kim Menzies didn’t fare well despite her being smitten by the singer for years. Kim had infamously showered multiple expensive presents on Usman. What Kim couldn’t give Usman was a child. Kim and Usman’s 18-year age difference ensured she would never agree to have a kid with him. Kim’s own son, Jamal Menzies, was 27 years old when she and Usman started dating.
Usman Was Married To Lisa Hamme On 90 Day Fiancé
Before Kim, Usman was a part of the 90 Day Fiancé franchise with Lisa AKA his “Babygirl.” Usman and Lisa starred in 90 Day Fiancé: Before the 90 Days season 4. Lisa had met Usman on Facebook while he was still an aspiring artist in his home country. They had a 20-year age gap between them and came from different cultural backgrounds, but the budding hip-hop artist seemed to have taken a liking to Lisa. Usman even wrote a song for Lisa, who earned a living as a hospice care worker in York, Pennsylvania back then.
Lisa had thought Usman was a Yahoo boy who was just looking for a woman to bring him to the U.S.
She knew that their relationship seemed unrealistic due to their massive age gap. However, Lisa gave it a chance anyway, only to feel insecure when she saw Usman surrounded by his female fans in Nigeria. The couple did get married during her first trip to Usman’s country, but Lisa and Usman had split while the show was still on air. Lisa claimed Usman married her to be on the TV show and gain exposure to sell his music.
Usman Became Kim Menzies’s Boyfriend On Before the 90 Days
Lisa wasn’t wrong because Usman did gain a large following from the show and most fans liked his music. Kim was one of these fans who became an ardent admirer of rapper and singer Sojaboy. She only had two loves in her life, Michael Jackson and Usman. Kim had been messaging Usman on social media and when he messaged her back, Kim fell in love with the “international superstar” Usman AKA Sojaboy. Kim now wanted to be Usman’s girlfriend while he was still in a relationship with a woman named Zara. After his split, Usman invited Kim to Tanzania.
Usman took a lot of convincing from Kim to become her boyfriend.
She was desperate and Usman finally gave in to her advances. Kim and Usman were engaged when they started their Happily Ever After? season 6 journey after Before the 90 Days season 5. Kim flew to Nigeria to seek Usman’s family’s blessings even though she knew their age was a problem. Usman’s mother didn’t like the fact that Kim was 50.
“Marry a fertile girl who is of tender age.”
Usman’s mother wanted him to stop bringing older women from a faraway world to their home.
