90 Day Fiancé: Angela Deem’s New Social Media Activity’s Heartbreaking (Is She Hurting Without Michael?)
Angela Deem from the 90 Day Fiancé franchise looks heartbroken on social media amid her rumored split from her husband, Michael Ilesanmi. The 57-year-old reality star first met her Nigerian partner in 2018. She liked his youthful aura and decided to marry him after dating him for two years. Unfortunately, Angela’s journey didn’t go as planned. Angela couldn’t welcome her husband to the United States due to unexpected delays in the visa process. These roadblocks proved too much for their marriage, as Michael grew distant from her and started romanticizing another American woman.
In 2022, Michael and Angela returned to 90 Day Fiancé: Happily Ever After?, where the latter found herself in a whirlwind of arguments with her husband. Angela caught Michael red-handed and discovered that he cheated on her online. While Angela should’ve broken up with Michael then, she gave him one final chance. The grandma of six sought marriage counseling in 90 Day: The Last Resort and ultimately chose to stay with her husband. In late 2023, Michael finally reached America to kickstart his married life with Angela. Sadly, he again betrayed her by running away a few months later.
Angela’s Attempt At Self-Love After Breakup Looks Fake
Since Michael’s departure from her life, Angela has been using her Instagram platform to express her emotional turmoil. In April, Angela posted a video on TikTok, indulging in self-love. Angela wore a pink top and visited a local restaurant. The Georgia native used the song “Girls Just Want To Have Fun” by Cyndi Lauper in the background. Angela looked calm but couldn’t hide the sadness in her eyes. She seems devastated after losing her husband. Angela wants fans to think she’s unbothered by Michael’s disappearance, but her facial expressions and lack of energy in self-love videos prove otherwise.
Angela Deem Experiments With Blue Hair
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Many people try to change their looks after breaking up to make themselves feel new. Angela has been doing the same by experimenting with her outfits and evolving her style.
Angela recently posted a TikTok video unveiling her new hairdo. Angela colored her hair blue and sported a matching top, looking very different from her usual self. While meemaw didn’t caption her post, she got support from her loyal fans. Hundreds of them liked her hair makeover and applauded her for trying a new style. People felt Angela looked beautiful.
Angela has changed a lot since she debuted in the 90 Day Fiancé franchise. However, she has never altered her hair color so drastically.
It seems like she’s changing herself because she doesn’t want her old looks to remind her of Michael. Meemaw wants to move on from her past.
Failed marriages are hard to overcome. Angela’s first step is likely to regain her confidence by fixing herself. She knows that the ghost of her relationship failure will forever haunt her if she doesn’t change her lifestyle and find new things to latch onto.
Angela Deem Can’t Stop Calling Michael “Weak”
Angela has been pretending that Michael made all the mistakes in their relationship. She recently posted a quote on TikTok, calling her Nigerian husband “weak.” The quote read, “weak people spread rumors. Stupid people believe them.” Michael first disappeared sometime after Valentine’s week in February. He reportedly called the police to let them know he was fine but told them not to tell Angela because he feared for his life. Some fans also believed him. They criticized Angela for her past actions and called her out on social media without proof.
Angela is hurt by her husband’s words. She can’t prove herself innocent because many viewers won’t believe her, as they’ve seen her lose her temper in different 90 Day Fiancé spin-offs.
Angela can also not share too much because there must be legal restrictions that stop her from revealing the truth. Angela can only post cryptic quotes on social media to hint at what may have happened. Her latest quote is just a way for her to vent. The reality star probably relies on likes and comments to keep her mindset positive.
Angela Wants People To Believe She’s At Peace After Michael Split
Angela has tried her best to make her followers believe she’s doing better than ever, regardless of her failed marriage. Recently, she reposted an emotional message on her Instagram Story via dimming_the_gaslight, “the peace I feel without your presence in my life is worth being the villain in your story.” Angela victimized herself by calling herself the villain in Michael’s story. She likes to call herself a queen and has a strong reputation on social media. She’s trying to make it look like her husband’s betrayal doesn’t bother her when, in reality, it does.
Angela Is Making Up Excuses For Her Bad Behavior Towards Michael
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Angela is accused of being self-centered. Therefore, it makes sense that she doesn’t want to take full blame for her actions over the years. Recently, the 90 Day Fiancé franchise star posted an Instagram Story implying that Michael isn’t speaking to her because he’s the one who owes her an apology. She didn’t refer to her husband by his name and used an Instagram user’s, onesmoothbrotha15, video to send the message. Angela doesn’t want to acknowledge her behavior toward Michael. She wrecked his car, shoved him, smashed a cake in his face, and abused him verbally.
Angela Is Going Through Emotional Withdrawal After Heartbreak
Angela has been acting tough on social media as if she doesn’t need anyone’s help. She’s hurt but doesn’t want to admit it.
Since meemaw has always been bossy, it makes sense for her to act this way. She knows her rude behavior hasn’t left her with many real friends, so she can’t truly rely on anyone. Angela’s big plan is to continue withdrawing from her emotional needs. She’s heartbroken but finds solace in not acknowledging it. The 90 Day Fiancé franchise alum star wants to live in an illusion to cope with reality.
