90 Day Fiancé: Why Emily Bieberly Will Forever Ruin Her Marriage By Meeting Kobe Blaise’s Ex-Girlfriend

Emily Bieberly may ruin her relationship with Kobe Blaise with her latest actions on 90 Day Fiancé: Happily Ever After? season 8. The mom of three first met her Cameroonian beau in China. She liked his personality and decided to pursue him romantically. After a one-night stand with Kobe, Emily got pregnant and returned to the United States to welcome her baby. She also applied for Kobe’s K-1 visa, allowing him to marry her in the United States. Emily and Kobe tied the knot in 90 Day Fiancé season 9, where they also announced their second pregnancy.

Emily and Kobe didn’t move out after their marriage. Instead, they chose to live with Emily’s parents and support them in other ways. The couple welcomed their second child, daughter Scarlett, sometime after filming the season. They updated fans on social media, inspiring them by showing off their happy marriage. While many initially despised Emily for acting like a spoiled brat, she eventually earned praise for her nurturing personality as a mother. Emily was applauded for taking on the parental responsibilities, working hard, maturing herself, and being a supportive wife to Kobe.

Emily Learns About Kobe’s Ex-Girlfriend From His Cameroonian Friends

Initially, it seemed like Emily and Kobe were done with the 90 Day Fiancé franchise as they were happily married. However, the two surprised fans by returning to TV in 90 Day Fiancé: Happily Ever After? season 8, showcasing their trip to Cameroon. The couple’s latest storyline shows them visiting Africa with their kids and Emily’s parents. They aimed to meet Kobe’s family and build a relationship with them. Unfortunately, the trip didn’t go as smoothly as they had hoped. Emily struggled to connect with Kobe’s friends and discovered some unexpected secrets.

In one of the episodes, Emily found out about Kobe’s previous relationship from his friends. She was told that Kobe allegedly had a girlfriend in Cameroon when he first met her in China. As expected, Emily didn’t appreciate that her husband hid such a big secret for years. She also thought it was shady of Kobe to hook up with her in China when he was already in another relationship. While Emily didn’t flip out after learning about her husband’s past, the revelation did blindside her. It made her curious to learn more about Kobe’s ex-girlfriend in Cameroon.

Why Does Emily Want To Meet Kobe’s Ex-Girlfriend?

Recently, Emily talked to Kobe and said his past was “unsettling” her mind. She confronted him about his ex-girlfriend and revealed that his friend, Valery, told her about it. Emily said that she wanted to meet Kobe’s former partner. However, Kobe didn’t like the idea. He felt it made “no sense” for Emily to want to meet his ex-girlfriend. He said, “I don’t understand why we have to bring my ex-girlfriend.” Ultimately, Emily got her way. Kobe texted his ex and asked her to meet him and his wife.

Emily’s main goal in meeting Kobe’s ex is to find the truth. She wants to know if Kobe cheated on that Cameroonian woman and if her husband and the lady were dating when she conceived her first child. While Emily is happily married to Kobe, she’s unsettled by the fact that her beau has likely committed infidelity in the past. Her goal is to discover what happened back then so she can finally move on from this incident. However, Kobe is understandably not a fan of Emily meeting his ex. He knows that nothing good will come out of it.

Kobe’s Ex Might Turn Out To Be A Villain

There are many reasons why Emily would make a big mistake by meeting Kobe’s ex-girlfriend. She doesn’t know what kind of person her husband’s former partner is. She’s willing to go to lengths to meet with someone who may simply lie to ruin her relationship. Kobe’s former partner may still be angry about her breakup with him. She may try to take her anger out by planting seeds of doubt in Emily’s head.

Kobe’s ex may try to end his happy marriage by getting back at him for betraying her.

Emily’s Actions Prove She Trusts A Stranger More Than Kobe

Emily’s desire to meet Kobe’s ex may also lead to marital issues. For years, she and her husband have trusted each other. They’ve built a happy family with kids and have had nice lives in the United States. If Emily trusts the other woman, Kobe may feel betrayed and hurt. He’d probably feel disappointed in his wife. Emily has already shown that she’s more inclined to know about Kobe’s past from someone else than him.

Her lack of faith in Kobe will forever change her relationship dynamic and may ruin what she has built.

Emily Would Lose Respect For Kobe If He Actually Lied

Emily’s pursuit of truth may also backfire. If Kobe is guilty, the truth may haunt Emily for the rest of her life. She would likely never be able to overcome the betrayal and forever lose respect for her husband. Emily should give up on meeting Kobe’s ex if she wants to ensure what’s best for her family. Nothing good can come from meeting a woman who isn’t part of her relationship.

The 90 Day Fiancé franchise star would be much happier accepting the past and focusing on her marriage. After all, Kobe has always been faithful to her after their wedding.

Emily Could Become More Insecure

Emily’s meetup with Kobe’s ex-girlfriend may make her more insecure. While she thinks that finding the truth will solve things and make her feel better, it may make her feel worse. It may even cause her to have postpartum depression, directly impacting her everyday life. Kobe is spot on for not wanting Emily to meet his ex. He loves his family and is committed to his wife. He probably feels Emily could become more insecure after talking to his ex. Unfortunately, the 90 Day Fiancé: Happily Ever After? star doesn’t realize that this could ruin her marriage to Kobe.